Father’s Day Gift Suggestions

After sifting through almost 400 Father’s Day gift suggestions, I’m happy to see that Dads are being focused on after all. (My initial impression was that dads got the short end of the stick holiday-wise.)

Honestly, when it comes to getting gifts for the men in my life, I usually get them something that they have recently mentioned in casual conversation that they wanted or needed. If they haven’t mentioned anything lately, I just ask. (I started this practice after getting Kangols and Old Spice for my own dad year after year until he protested. Me: “You were the one who asked me for them. I thought that you liked them.” Him: “Yes, I did, but that was many years ago. I do like them…just not every year!” Point taken.) This year, I bought my dad a gift card to Macy’s. (He has very specific tastes in clothes – he’s a “Dapper Don”. So, if he doesn’t tell me specifically what he wants clothing-wise, I let him choose for himself!)

My husband mentioned that he needs some new pants, so I also bought him a gift card to Macy’s. I’m going to go shopping with him though as a part of his gift, because he’s one of those people who won’t ever use their gift cards! In addition, I’m creating a photo/video montage as a gift for him with the boys. I’m using One True Media to create it. They gave me a trial Premium Subscription to test out the site and it’s so easy to use! You simply upload your photos and video, add music and any other effects that you desire and you’re done. (I’m writing this on here, because my husband doesn’t read my blog without asking first!) I’m going to turn the montage into a gift DVD. (You can also e-mail it, post it on social media sites or send it to TiVo so it can be watched on TV.) Basic membership to One True Media is free (while premium membership is $3.99/month or $39.99/year) making this a great gift idea. I’ll post the montage on the blog after my husband sees it first.

Okay, so that’s it for the dads in my life, since my husband is getting his father’s gift. Below are two more tech gift ideas that I wanted to highlight. (I’ve seen them, but I don’t own them.)

1. Motorola TALKABOUT® MR350R Radios ($79.99 per pair): Active dads will enjoy these two-way radios that are best suited for outdoor use. That is where you will see the best range (they have a range of 35 miles). The radios also come with NOAA weather alerts, an Emergency alert button and many other features. (I’m thinking of some of my “outdoorsy” guy friends who would love this – especially since summer vacation camping/trips are right around the corner.)

2. Vue personal video network ($299.99): Earlier this year, I was able to see a preview of this system at an Editor’s Showcase. It is a wire-free video system that can be used on a daily basis. With it, dads will be able to see their families from practically anywhere. (When I initially saw it, I thought that it would be a great purchase for parents who are away from their families a lot for business or other reasons.) What I especially like about it is that it’s simple. You just set up the cameras, plug an Internet connection into the back of the Gateway and start viewing. There are no wires and no software to set up, so it’s easy to use no matter how tech savvy you are (or are not!). The Vue will be shipping soon, but you can pre-order now in order to be one of the first people to experience it.

Cheeburger Cheeburger in Forest Hills (Queens)

My family is moving (primarily because of the school system). After recently signing the lease on an apartment in the Forest Hills neighborhood, we went to this place called Cheeburger Cheeburger. It was just a burger place, but the service and food was so good…look:

I keep hearing such great things about the food (bakeries, kebabs, etc.) in the Forest Hill area. If we actually do move there, I'll be sure to "report back" to you about as many of them as possible. Smile.

Father’s Day Celebrations

Do you want to know something funny? A lot of people in my personal life think that I’m creative. I’m not. I just know how to “borrow” and implement ideas from people who have the gift of creativity! That’s why I’m happy to share some ideas from Penny Warner, the party planning expert for Balloon Time Helium Balloon Kits. (She has more than 25 years of experience in the industry and writes frequently on creative and budget-friendly party and gift ideas for all types of special occasions.) She was kind enough to share some insights with us from her recent Father’s Day column.

Father’s Day Celebrations
Father’s Day is the perfect time for Mom and the kids to show Dad how much he means to the family. Here are some tips and suggestions for sharing this special day with the man of the house and letting him know he’s the best Dad ever!

Father’s Day Morning
Start the day with a fun gift for Dad. Buy or make him a funny tie covered with cartoon characters, golf balls or wild designs. Roll up the tie and stuff it into a large balloon. Inflate the balloon with helium using a Balloon Time Helium Balloon Kit, tie it off, add a ribbon, and tie the ribbon to Dad’s bedroom door early in the morning. When he finds the balloon, have him pop it to retrieve his first Father’s Day gift. Then make him wear that funny tie the rest of the day!

Decorate for Dad
Make a big “Happy Father’s Day” sign and hang it in the kitchen for Dad to find when he comes out for his morning coffee.

Make him a crown out of brightly colored construction paper, decorate it with stickers or the kids’ artwork, and crown him “King for a Day.”

Inflate a bunch of balloons with helium and tie them to Dad’s favorite chair, his TV, his car or anything else that he loves.

Fun with Father
Entertain Dad with some fun activities the family can enjoy together.

1. Write a Poem for Dad
Let Dad know how much he means to you with a few well-chosen words. The poem doesn’t have to rhyme—it just has to express your feelings.
1. Start with a topic, such as:
- What are Dad’s hobbies and interests?
- What makes Dad special?
- What’s something funny your dad always does?
- What kind of work does your dad do?

2. Write a heart-felt poem about Dad.
- Include one or more of the topics you’ve chosen.
- If you need more ideas, flip through the family album to remind you of some fun family times.
- Keep in mind the poem can be sweet, serious, or funny—as long as it’s written by you.
3. Give the poem to Dad in a clever way, such as:
- Stand up and read the poem during dinner.
- Slip it into Dad’s coat pocket before he goes out.
- Recite it on Dad’s cell phone or answering machine.
- Record it on video and play it later for Dad.

2. Make Your Own Father’s Day Card
Create a unique card that Dad can proudly display at his workplace or on the refrigerator for everyone to see.
1. Find an 8 ½” by 11” sheet of cardstock and fold both sides inward so the ends meet. When folded, the card should look like a set of “double doors.”
2. Open the “doors” and draw a picture of your dad in the center.
3. On the inside, write the words: “Daddy’s Home!”
4. Fold the doors closed and write the words: “My two favorite words are…”
5. Use a sticker to secure the doors closed.
6. Place the card in an envelope and give it to your dad.

3. Scrap a “Dad Memory Book”
Capture the best of your dad in a mini-scrapbook.
1. Fold several sheets of construction paper together to make a book. Staple it along the fold or punch two holes and tie together with ribbon.
2. Color-copy several of your favorite pictures of Dad from the photo album to use for your scrapbook.
3. Cut out the pictures, glue them to pages of the book, and then add funny captions, such as “Watch out Tiger Woods!” for a golf picture or “How do you like it—burned or blackened?” for a BBQ picture.
4. On the cover, cut out a headshot of your dad, glue it onto the front, and draw a Super Hero outfit on him. Then write, “Super Dad’s Scrapbook”

4. Play Miniature Golf
If Dad’s a golfer—or wants to be—set up a mini-golf course in the backyard.
1. Instead of holes, create an obstacle course using an empty can, a small cardboard box, a tented book, a plastic cup and other objects.
2. Take turns using golf clubs to hit the golf balls through the course.
3. Let Dad win…

5. Bake a Necktie Cake
Because neckties are a tradition on Father’s Day, whip up a tie he can eat!
1. Prepare cake mix according to package directions.
2. Pour a little batter into a single cupcake tin (you only want to make one cupcake), and pour the rest into a rectangular pan.
3. Bake and allow the cake to cool.
4. Cut the rectangular cake in half, lengthwise, and lay it end to end to form most of tie.
5. Set the cupcake at the top of one end to form the knot.
6. Frost the cake and decorate it with M&Ms to form a polka-dotted or striped tie.

Father's Day Gift Ideas (Books)

I’m not really putting together a Father’s Day Gift Guide. Rather, I’m going to do two days of gift ideas (Books and Unique Gifts).

Books are some of my favorite things. Below are eight that I think will make wonderful Father’s Day gifts for a variety of dads:

1. Afterbirth: Stories You Won’t Read in a Parenting Magazine
“(It) is a new book offering compassion and hope for parents of any age and disciplinarian follower. (It) is not a sentimental love-fest about the joys of parenthood. Rather, it has more heart in its depictions about the shocking, wonderful, and terrible moments of being a parent, and embraces the complaints, brutally honest opinions, and parental failings about the most mystifying job in the world. Afterbirth is largely written by fathers, and not just any fathers, but some of the funniest dads today, most of whom are award-winning comedy and television writers.”


2. Always By My Side
”The National Sportscaster of the Year beautifully recounts his loving relationship with his own father, Jim Nantz Sr., who ultimately succumbed to Alzheimer’s disease. Nantz discusses how his father shaped him as a person, and helped him become the man he is today.”


3. Crash Course for New Dads: Tools, Checklists and Cheat Sheets
"Greg Bishop, founder of Boot Camp for New Dads, a non-profit orientation program for fathers-to-be, operating in more than 260 hospitals, clinics, schools, fire stations and churches around North America and internationally, has recently released his second book on fathering…which serves as a terrific "how to" guide for new fathers."


*4. Dance Me, Daddy
” In her new children’s book, singer/songwriter and 2009 Dove Award Winner Cindy Morgan celebrates the bond between fathers and daughters everywhere. With lively illustrations by Philomena O’Neill, Dance Me, Daddy recalls the days when Daddy was the “King of the World.” The final copy of the book will include a CD with the song “King of the World” (written by Morgan and inspiration for the book) performed by Point of Grace, as well as a reading of the book by Morgan.” (I was sent this beautiful book. Since I don't have a daughter, I'm going to give it to one of my mom friends that does have a little girl.)


5. Keel's Simple Diary Volume One
“This unique mole-skin diary is TASCHEN’s first release primarily filled with text which TASCHEN describes as, “a book that provides us with a little comfort in difficult times.” Illuminating thought starters, queries and illustrations enable the reader/creator to explore, navigate and document the chaotic adventure that is life.”


6. LAMENTATIONS OF THE FATHER
“Celebrated humorist Ian Frazier’s (book is) a collection of The New Yorker contributor’s essays from the past fourteen years of his career. Stories included are “The Cursing Mommy Cookbook,” “Kid Court,” and “How to Operate the Shower Curtain.”


7. LIFE with Father
“Celebrate the joys of parenthood. Featuring celebrities—think Jackie and Caroline Kennedy—and everyday moms and dads; these books are the perfect gift to express the sentiments words cannot.”


8. Love Equals Sacrifice
“An emotional and moving autobiography chronicling the author's experiences caring for a father with Alzheimer's and his realization that true love does not come without sacrifice.”

Hidden Hazards in the Home

For some reason, when random accidents injure/take the life of kids, it really shakes me up. So, a couple of weeks ago, I was really sad to learn about the accidental death of Mike Tyson’s 4-year-old daughter. She had been strangled by a cord on a treadmill.

One great thing about working in the parenting field is that you have access to all types of experts. I immediately emailed my contact person at Safe Kids USA to see if they had anyone that could address child safety in regards to exercise rooms/gyms (in-home and out). Yesterday, I had a telephone call with Chrissy Cianflone, the Director of Program Operations at Safe Kids USA, and we had a very helpful conversation. Since it turned out that the case with Tyson’s daughter was simply a tragic accident/it’s very rare for kids to be strangled at home by exercise equipment, we talked about several things that parents should be more aware of in the home…

1. Cords: Parents need to be mindful of infants and toddlers playing with common household items like lamp/blind/computer cords. Tie them up out of the reach of kids and make sure that they’re not accessible. That also includes clothing items like drawstrings/necklaces/scarves. Kids are at risk of playing with them in a dangerous manner until they’re older/know better.

2. Adult supervision: Of course no one can watch their kid 24 hours, 7 days a week. However, it is important for parents to watch their kids – especially when they’re in areas where they have access to potentially dangerous items (i.e. treadmills, large televisions, etc.) Since we can’t watch our kids all of the time, it’s important that we limit access to potential dangers.

3. Secure furniture: Small kids use furniture to creep and climb. That’s why it’s important that stands/dressers/televisions are properly secured. Be sure to use furniture straps to secure large pieces of furniture and equipment so that small kids won’t be able to pull them down on top of themselves. (As I listened to this point, I made a mental note to get a strap for our new flat-screen television ASAP!)

4. Check recalled products: Toys, clothing and all types of other products are constantly being recalled for a variety of reasons. Parents need to get those items out of their homes for safety’s sake. The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission (CPSC) lists recalls. You can also sign up on their site to get email notices of products as they are recalled by category (toys/clothing/etc.) As I glanced at their site, I noticed that there is an “ESPECIALLY FOR KIDS” section.

5. Toys: If parents have children of different ages in their homes (like many of us!), it’s important that they store each child’s toys separately. It’s potentially hazardous to the younger kids to play with their older sibling’s toys (especially because of the small parts). It is important that parents follow the recommendations/warning labels that come with toys. Chrissy made a great point that I want to emphasize. Many parents overestimate their child’s intelligence, but underestimate their child’s ability. In other words (and I’m guilty of this too!) we think that our kids are so smart that they can “handle” toys designed for older kids. However, we don’t realize that our kids are able to use these “older” toys in a way that can cause them harm. Being able to handle toys is not an issue of intelligence; it’s an issue of development. Safe Kids USA has a great page on their site that shares various safety tips in a wide variety of categories. It’s definitely worth a look!

12 (Budget-Friendly!) Fun Family Spring/Summer Activities

As the weather gets warmer outside, there are so many fun things to do. That's why I'm happy that Bette Holtzman, vice president of consumer and family advocacy at The Goldberger Company is sharing 12 fun family activities that will cost little (or no) money during the warm weather below. (Those of us who are urban parents might have to be a little "more creative" in regards to implementing some of the suggestions.)
12 Fun Family Spring/Summer Activities That Won't Break the Bank
1) Take a Trip to the Farmers’ Market. Farmers’ markets are unexpected family-oriented places that offer great stimulation for children. They present a fun learning opportunity where kids can experience various colors, shapes, sounds and smells. Kids can touch and taste. And there are plenty of freebies, which means mom and dad don’t always have to buy! Frequent visits allow a family to develop relationships with local farmers and vendors in their community. To find a local farmers’ market near you, visit: www.localharvest.org/farmersmarkets.



2) Do a Little Gardening. This is an inexpensive way to teach your kids about nature. Buy a packet of seeds from a local hardware store or gather some leftover seeds from the fruits and vegetables you bring home from the market. Kids can plant flowers, fruits or vegetables in your backyard garden, a flower pot, or a widow box, and watch them grow. Plus, girls and boys love to play in the dirt!

3) Visit the Schoolyard or Playground. Head to an elementary school playground outside of school hours, or any local park or playground. When your kids have tired of the swings and jungle gym, go for a walk or take a bike ride.

4) Go on a Picnic. Pack up some peanut butter and jelly sandwiches and juice boxes and spread out a blanket at a nearby park. Meet up with other moms and dads and their kids. Feed the birds or ducks day-old bread—just watch out for those pesky squirrels! You can even bring the family dog or a favorite doll or stuffed animal along for the fun.

5) Make Your Own Bubbles. Whether you’re at home in the backyard or at the park, blowing bubbles is always a fun activity for kids. Take the fun one step further and make your own bubbles together! All you need is a shallow pan, a little dish soap, water and glycerin (available at your local pharmacy). A house fly swatter doubles as a wand for lots of teeny bubbles. Check out some great bubble recipes and tips at http://bubbleblowers.com/.

6) Hold a Neighborhood Bicycle Parade. Round up the children on your street and hold a bicycle and tricycle parade through the neighborhood! Use newspaper comic strips as handlebar streamers. Attach playing cards to the part of the bike that holds the wheels in place, and when the wheels turn, the spokes will make all sorts of noise.

7) Have a Garage Sale. Get rid of “stuff” in the house that you no longer want or need. Parents are always looking for “gently used” children’s things. Let your school age kids manage their own lemonade stand—always a big hit! Or, if you’re in the market, take your kids to a neighborhood garage sale. Let your kids pick out a “new” toy. Remember, another kid’s old toy is new to your child! Garage sales are also great places to find gently used books for all ages to read. Check your local community newspaper for garage sale listings.

8) Chalk is Cheap. Sidewalk chalk is a great invention. It’s thicker than blackboard chalk (easier for small hands to maneuver), it lasts longer, and it comes in colors and fun shapes. Any sidewalk or driveway becomes a canvas for “works of art” and will attract children of all ages. This is a fun mess that is easy to clean up with a garden hose or families can just wait until it rains.

And for rainy days or those days when it’s just too hot to be outside, here are some great indoor activities to try!

9) Walk the Mall. Many local malls open their doors for walkers before the stores open. Get a group of moms and dads together, grab the kids and strollers, and head out bright and early to get some exercise. Moms and dads can visit the coffee shop afterward and bring some juice boxes for the kids. Call your local mall to learn more about their walking program, as some require registration.

10) Visit the Public Library. The public library is a terrific and often underutilized resource for families. Because early literacy is a huge part of the library’s mission, most libraries have a number of free programs including story times, author readings, reading contests, and even craft activities. Check your local phone book for library and branch information.

11) Make Your Own Clay!

1 Cup flour 1 Tbsp oil

½ Cup salt 1 Cup water

2 tsp. Cream of tartar Food coloring, beet or carrot juice

Combine flour, salt, cream of tartar in bowl. Gradually stir liquids into dry ingredients.

Stir in food coloring or juice (add small amounts at a time).Cook in saucepan over medium heat until a ball forms. Clay will darken slightly when cooked.

Remove from heat and knead until smooth. If sticky, cook for a few minutes longer.

Have fun – just be careful of the furniture!

12) Spend Time on the World Wide Web. More and more parents are using computers with their young children, as the Web can help teach important skills. The Internet offers a wealth of knowledge and activities for children to do on their own or with parents or older siblings. There are some phenomenal Web sites and resources out there. I like www.PBSKids.org, www.ala.org/greatsites, and www.nwf.org/kidzone. Or Google “free stuff for kids” for a host of other options!

For more information about The Goldberger Co. (a 93-year-old family owned and operated toy company that specializes in dolls and playthings for children aged 0 to 3) and to read more parenting tips from Bette, please visit www.goldbergertoy.com.

Interview with Mark Consuelos

Last Thursday, I had the pleasure of speaking with Mark Consuelos (actor, Kelly Ripa’s husband and father) regarding what he’s learned about family closeness and the new Lever 2000 Make Every Touch Count campaign benefiting the Boys and Girls Clubs of America (http://www.bgca.org/). [As part of the campaign, Lever 2000 (the only soap that my husband buys for himself!) is also inviting families to share photos of their favorite family moments for a chance to win great prizes (including being in a magazine ad, a new family dining set and digital cameras).]

Although time was short, I also had a chance to ask Mark a few questions from some Twitter friends (@StorybookQuilts @Ballyhoo and @TimeOutMom). Please view the clip below to hear his responses.

High Tea at The Russian Tea Room

My 36th birthday was earlier this month. A few weeks before, my husband asked me what I wanted as a gift. I responded that I wanted to go to high tea (one of my favorite things). Being the wonderful husband that he is, he was fine with that. Then, he asked whom did I want to join me for the tea. (Last year, he had treated me and a girlfriend.) This year, I switched things up a bit though. I said that I wanted him to go with me. Let’s just say that high tea is definitely not my husband’s thing, but he consented. He was so great about it. He made our reservations and set up the childcare (with a preschool teacher friend of ours) so that I wouldn’t have to think about the kids as we enjoyed our meal.

On Saturday, it was high tea day – and not just any high tea. He had arranged for us to go to high tea at The Russian Tea Room because it was one of the few places that I had not had high tea already. I didn’t know quite what to expect because every high tea service is different. I wasn’t sure if we would have to pick one of the sandwiches from the menu or if they would serve an assortment. (They served the assortment). I’m pretty adventurous so I didn’t have a problem with anything except the caviar. My husband had to convince me to try it, because I just couldn’t stand the way it looked (little black fish eggs – no thanks!). The truth is that it tasted perfectly fine. (I still couldn’t eat the second caviar though.)

Sandwiches and Blinis:
Curried chicken salad with raisins and pecans;
Shrimp salad with rémoulade;
Smoked Scottish salmon with chive cream cheese and cucumber;
Artichoke with red pepper and a sun-dried tomato goat cheese;
Smoked ham and turkey with truffle croque monsieur;
N.Y smoked sturgeon with dill and sour cream;
Roquefort bleu cheese and pear with walnuts;
A tasting of two American caviars on Blinis

The next platter was much easier to enjoy. I’m used to having clotted cream with my scones, but they didn’t have that. It was fine though, because the scones were delicious and served with butter and a greater assortment of jams (strawberry, apricot and black cherries) than any of the other teas that I had attended. Everything looked small, but it really was filling. Neither my husband nor I were able to finish our cupcakes and petit fours by the end of our date.

Assorted seasonal scones, cupcakes and petits fours

I like simple teas, so I ordered the Chamomile. My husband ordered the Indian black tea. Both of us enjoyed our drinks. My husband really liked the tea glasses. (I think that he just felt relieved that the Russian tea service wasn’t as “feminine” as typical English teas.) The only other thing that I found different was that sweet and sour cherries (that you put in your tea) is a traditional part of the Russian tea experience. We tried them in our teas at the end. For me, it really didn’t add to or take away from the flavor of my tea.

Loose Teas

All in all, it was a wonderful experience. It was fun to get dressed up and try something new with my husband. The best part was that we both enjoyed it. It was one of my best birthday gifts ever. Thirty-six is definitely starting off on a high note!